Every species, including we humans, evolves over time. This ensure we adapt to our ever-changing environments and continue surviving as a species.
If you remember your biology 101, we are mammals and part of the animal kingdom, species homo sapien – human. And, in the animal world, we are somewhat of an anomaly. Unlike most of our mammalian kin, we are one of the very few species that has a limited time for reproduction. Along with a couple of whale species, we lose our reproductive capabilities long before our lives end.
Everyone else seems to have fertility throughout their lifespans. Even our closest primate relatives have the capability of reproducing most of their adult lives. They stop having babies around 30 years old, but their life span is not much longer than that. So they essentially reproduce over their adult lifespan.
Other mammals with longer life spans seem to retain this ability too. Elephants commonly have calves when they are in their 60’s. And did you know that whales can have babies well into their 80’s? Let that sink in for a second. A newborn baby to care for…in your 80’s. Wow.
So, what’s going on here? We have longer life spans than our closest animal relatives but we lose our ability to reproduce relatively early in comparison. Evolution has a reason for everything. What is its reason for menopause?
The fact is, science doesn’t really know for sure. There are two schools of thought though. Adaptive theories for menopause suggest that menopause evolved as an adaptation to the environment that gives us an advantage as a species. These theories are based on the positive reasons for menopause.
There are lots of adaptive theories. They suggest that evolution favors early fertility over late fertility not just biologically, but socially. Given the roles that women take as they age, it is seen as advantageous to support younger descendants so that they can continue to take full advantage of their child-bearing years while receiving help to ensure the well-being of their other children.
One of the most commonly cited adaptive theories is the “grandmother hypothesis”. This theory says that menopause is protective for a woman of a certain age. Menopause shields an older woman from the increased risks of child-birth. By avoiding the risk of death in childbirth, the mature woman remains available to raise her own children to maturity, and also care for grandchildren, supporting the survival of the genetic line. Makes sense, right?
Another adaptive is the “mother hypothesis”. It suggests that menopause avoids the risks of dying in childbirth that older women face. As women get older, they are more likely to experience complications in childbirth and less likely to survive long enough to raise a child to maturity.
And then, there’s the “reproductive conflict hypothesis”. This theory is based on the long-standing hunter-gatherer tradition of multigenerational living. Mothers and daughters-in-law generally lived under the same roof and had to share what were often scarce resources. Daughters usually married and went to live with their in-laws. This theory asserts that menopause occurs because when older mothers and younger daughters had children at the same time, they were competing for resources. That competition was likely to result in poor outcomes for the kids. And there are actually some interesting facts to support this idea. Researchers in Finland found that 50 percent of children born to older women who were pregnant at the same time their daughter-in-law did not survive to age 15. Children born to younger women pregnant at the same time as their mother-in-law, were 66 percent less likely to survive to adolescence.1 So this theory seems to suggest that child-bearing risk and competition for resources with younger females might explain menopause.
Non-adaptive theory, on the other hand, is based on the idea that menopause is simply the result of evolutionary changes in the human lifespan. There’s no distinct “purpose” to it. Human females were simply designed to reproduce for about as long as they were likely to live based on their evolutionary history. The fact is, our lifespan is MUCH longer than even our recent ancestors. We just live longer and our reproductive system gives out long before the rest of the body does. And, thanks to medical advances, we can remain relatively healthy well into our 80’s and 90’s. But, we’ve seen menopause mentioned even back as far as ancient Greece when lifespans were still fairly short. It may not be this simple.
So, what do we really know about the evolution of menopause? Some but not much. What we do know is that mature women play crucial roles. Our mothers, aunts, grandmothers, even great-grandmothers, are the sages in our family. They hold the knowledge and history of who we are and where we came from. Not just the facts. They know the tales and the nuances. Before there were books and TV’s and the internet, there were the matriarchs. They were and still are the holders of the real history of our families and culture. We need them when we’re younger, we become them when we’re older. Whether we women choose to reproduce or not, there’s no denying that we are crucial to our species and our society.
As we come to the end of this evolutionary tale, think about the mature women who have been in your life – your mother, grandmother, maybe a mentor in your career, or even celebrities you admire. Think about the role you want to play in your family and society as you enter a new phase of your life. Keep that in mind as we progress to the next lesson.
I have been thinking about where my life is going to head in this next part of my life. Who am I? Who do I want to be? Where do I want to go? What do I want to do?
I’ve been having the same thoughts lately also
Oh me too! It actually can be a very exciting time!
Currently going through the menopause and have reached a time in my life when I want to spend more time with my family , I feel that this is a new chapter in my life and want to slow down and enjoy what I have and have achieved in life
I would not want to have babies in my 80’s!
I always said I want to be done having babies at 30 so I could be young enough to watch them grow and to be able to take care of them. We missed it by 1 year due to a miscarriage. We now have 3 Grown boys and so far 4 beautiful grandkids. I want to be able to stay healthy, happy and fit to se them grow also!
Growing up I always heard about the “Change” women go through, and I always wondered what we “Changed” into, when reaching the age of 50, I quickly began to understand.
Loved to hear some good reasons for menopause. Started to resignify it all.
I want to continue to be my kids biggest cheerleader. I want to model for passion and partnership in a marriage. I want to have the energy to travel and try new things. I want to continue to be fulfilled in my career but brave enough to say yes to the big opportunities I imagine for myself.
I find myself playing a mentor role. I find myself helping women realise they can bring themselves to their work, and that the whole work of raising children is a shared one with their partner.
I want to have more time to connect and nurture the friendships I have made – I always prioritise work and that needs to stop. And I want more time to slow down and enjoy the things I’ve worked so hard to achieve. Develop my interests. Have a life beyond work.
I’m trying to have a baby with my fiancé
My bottom stay didn’t u at times low sex drive
I need Estrogen
Very interesting
I realize, that I enter new part in my life and start to feel that it is not only my body that changes.
I am thankful for these lessons, that guide along this path of change and try to become the best me I ever had.
The thought of reproducing even now at 45 seems hard. The amount of energy and patience when I feel like I want to run away 4 out of 7 days now.
I’m totally disoriented in this part of my life. The surgery on 20 June changed my life: I’m another person with I’m not familiar with.
Not going to lie, these hormones make my mother wound and attachment stuff more prevalent…I didn’t have a close sage like nurturing mother or figure🥲
I have been thinking about my genetics as I don’t know what my birth mother went through
The theories are very interesting! Women stuff wasn’t something really discussed in my home although there were 4 girls. My parents were immigrants and it wasn’t something that was discussed but held private. I learned what I needed to as I grew. Discovering what I needed to know from my friends moms that lived on my street. Growing up and to this day I was very close to 2 neighbors, Sheila and Irene and they helped me to understand ‘women stuff’. I watched my mom go through menopause not really understanding what she was experiencing because she wouldn’t speak about it with us girls. Now that I’ve experienced what I have through the change I’m understanding more what she went through and some of her pain and insecurities. It’s all making sense to me now. I have been journaling since I was 28 years old and I have a special box that I keep them in. One day when I’m not here I hope my 2 children read them so they too can put the pieces of my life together and what I experienced at different ages of their lives. I hope it all comes together for them as well and missing pieces fit.
I have lost my grandmothers and also several great-aunts. I find myself asking my mom more questions about our family history and even doing some research myself. I feel a responsibility to carry that knowledge of our history and pass it on to my children. As far as the next phase of my life, I hope to move closer to my mom so that I can help her when she needs it. We lost my dad almost two years ago and I am an only child. My mom has friends and other family members but I feel like I should be there for her like she was always there for me. In addition, as I get older I want to spend time with my extended family and get to know them again, especially my cousins. We have drifted apart since childhood.
This is interesting
As a biologist, I don’t really see how evolution has any power to determine the end of the menses. More successful child rearing is selected for, it doesn’t seem possible to select for not reproducing, or the end of reproducing… oh, I see, all these hypotheses are about how moms who get menopause have more successful offspring, that make more offspring. That does make sense.